need help with sql migration

[gangaskan]

right now we're on 2012, and we have a new 2016 sql server spun up and databases are migrated over to the new sql server, attached, and i followed the guide https://blogs.technet.microsoft.com/configurationmgr/2013/04/02/how-to-move-the-configmgr-2012-site-database-to-a-new-sql-server/

trying to upgrade so we can go further than 1610,  we went with a side sql server  as we are upgrading other software, and they went with a entirely new sql server.  

the setup has been at a standstill.  and here is where i'm at 

 

it halts there.  

 

 any help would be awesome

 

 

edit: 

well, after waiting about 40 minutes there is more setup generated, its shutting down site components and hopefully things go well.  

 

edit 2: 

 

yall can close this  my impatient self was the fault!